Leaving large tips at restaurants and bars?
Or is it best to stay off the “property” of establishments where other patrons follow the custom of offering large money in exchange for sexual services?
Food service and hospitality industry sex workers who treat customers as male and female johns are not appreciated by all.
Gandharv Walia
Tipping can also strengthen social bonds and encourage positive interactions.
They want a tip not just for a nice meal, but for a gas station hot dog and for a cup of coffee to go on the road, too. So if I did that I would have fake servile friends who would only be my friends as long as I paid them money consistently to be my friends.
Different psychological theories explain why some people willingly reward good service even when they may never meet the server again.
Those women and some men are offering “one night stands” to mostly male but also to female travelers and “serving” various obnoxious family law type process in court. Because the tipping “one night stand” customers are considered “stalkers” or “creeps” and aren't ever welcome on the property again.
Until they learn you're a local and you simply do not appreciate the prostitution and sex trafficking by local whores and pimps.
Psychology says people who leave generous tip for the waiters at any restaurant and bar aren't always motivated by status or public image. People often assume generous tipping is about showing off money.
I feel like I’m being robbed or held up at gunpoint if I go out to eat anymore. Now I want to know if they're prowling my car in the parking lot, calling cops to have me picked up as an unwanted customer, or finding out where I live and burglarizing my home while I'm sitting down waiting for my meal at a restaurant.