Is the blind food order part of the blind date?

What do these women gain by offering themselves on so-called “blind” dates? And more importantly, who arranges the dates commercially and profits by arranging them?

Woman wonders if her blind date ordering all her food without asking is a red flag
A first date felt easy and pleasant on the surface, until she realized she never actually got to choose what she was eating.
One reply went further, placing the behavior inside a recognized manipulation pattern. "So this is actually a red pill tactic called 'compliance test' and 'framing the interaction' where they order your food for you without asking preferences, allergies, or restrictions in order to test if you will speak up or not. It's to see how easily they can make decisions for you and manipulate you. These 'methods' also include making other decisions for you to test boundaries like telling you that you're going to a nice restaurant and to dress nicely, and then take you to a bowling alley while you're in a dress and heels. All made to see if you will say anything, take the humiliation."

How much are these women being paid to establish and maintain profiles on internet dating sites and online social platforms?

There might be the occasional awkward teenage girl who kisses a boy for the first time, but these women are professionals at feigning awkwardness, obtaining psychiatric examinations in their favor and serving obnoxious process to single men in court.

Most of the men are obviously getting exactly what they want from these women with no strings attached, or else the women wouldn't be in business “dating” professionally, to what extent outright prostitution is socially acceptable in any particular “community” by the prevailing social etiquette, community norms, social mores, unwritten rules and unspoken codes.