By justina colmena ~biz in conspiracies —

You can't be the nice girl next door

Narcissists, sociopaths with psychopathic tendencies, and you never really knew the person you thought you did —

Being the victim of all sorts of obnoxious service of process unrelated to any actual relationships — I meet highly litigious people, cop-calling whores and cop-calling homosexual men..The term “gay” breaks down because an angry bitter man cannot be described as “gay” even if he is homosexual. The thing in common is that they all have their boyfriends and they call cops.

‘The System Literally Holds You Hostage’: Mississippi Won’t Grant a Divorce Without Proof of Adultery if One Spouse Refuses
A TikToker says Mississippi’s divorce laws forced her to prove her husband’s affair with a private investigator.
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What Are the Grounds for Divorce in Mississippi? - The Mississippi Bar
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‘The System Literally Holds You Hostage’: Mississippi Won’t Grant a Divorce Without Proof of Adultery if One Spouse Refuses
A TikToker says her Mississippi lawyer told her she needed photos or video to prove adultery to get a divorce.
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Her lawyer told her that suspicion alone was not sufficient. "You need proof. You need photos of them together. You need videos," the lawyer said, suggesting she hire a private investigator. She initially thought he was joking, but apparently not. … The TikToker also said her lawyer warned her that she could not date anyone else until the divorce was finalized without risking an adultery accusation herself, a process she said could take two to three years.

Mississippi is not exactly a hands-down no-fault divorce state. You can't go to court with a mere “suspicion” of infidelity. You really do need the proof of anything you bring in court. And if you're divorcing your spouse for infidelity, it's much better to avoid dating other men or drawing any suspicion or casting an appearance of infidelity yourself. Expect that he is hiring his own lawyer and private investigator whether you are aware of it or not.

Divorcing women often gain a reputation, deserved or not, as “lesbians” with a regular “trim” for court appearances and no boyfriends.