People want financial security when they date? Who doesn't?

Some of the girls are rather precocious.

Meet the sugarbabies 2.0 — why some of America’s most desirable women only want to date older men
“I just want the choice, and I don’t want to be ridiculed for my dating preference.”
Meet the sugarbabies 2.0 — why some of America’s most desirable women only want to date older men - AOL
“I just want the choice, and I don’t want to be ridiculed for my dating preference.”

Look for values, good employment, not reckless spending. Otherwise I believe these are marriages of convenience.

Wealthier older women called “cougars” who date younger men are definitely out there, as well as men who grift or sponge off their girlfriends or wives.

“Cougars” of course have a reputation as predatory femmes fatales. And the older men also have ways of disposing of their young female playmates when they tire of them.