Man discovers girlfriend was organizing a romance scam in cahoots with other women; calls off engagement

A man in such a dating community is supposed to “live with” a local female without being married, only so that the woman can establish a fake “relationship” in court to in order to falsely allege domestic violence, not to engage in any real intimacy or affection with the man.

Then she wants to marry on paper, but she wants him to propose formally, and meanwhile she's very very cold to the man.

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According to him, the conversation included suggestions on how she could push him to propose sooner, such as giving him the cold shoulder, withholding intimacy, or making him feel guilty until he committed.

That's not a man a woman is going to marry in real life, and that's the problem with them living together. Talk to that FBI boss Kash Patel. She has her girlfriends and she doesn't need him.

“Living together” and I'm not going so far as to believe the rumors of that.

These are conversations to start having, ideally before moving in together.

“Moving in together” is a telltale sign of man-hating lesbianism. Otherwise, there's a man walking on eggshells around his girlfriend and all of her girlfriends and he becomes a “loser dude” without any sense of place or propriety of his own. And then if he ever goes out with the guys or meets with any of his friends, it's officially over.