Pop psychology & S.O.P.

Single people meet, maybe they get married, maybe they don’t, but it cannot be a professional paid “job.”

Why Do We Click? The Psychology of Instant Connection

Have you ever met someone and instantly felt they were “your kind of person”? It’s rare but powerful—and science has examined why we click with certain people right away.

Psychology TodaySebnem Ture M.Sc.

To summarize, neural synchrony, Language Style Matching (LSM), birds of a feather, shared vulnerability and shared sense of humor. You see a man in the feature photo but that’s not a straight female. The man isn’t going to be able to “share” or feel synchrony with her menstrual cycle, or laugh about the same things with her that he would laugh about “out with the guys” or she would laugh about “out with the girls.” All I can tell about this urban pop psychology is that it involves an excessive degree of same-gender forced intimacy and nothing else.

Some People Say They Don’t Have Sexual Fantasies

A small percentage of adults claim to have never had a sexual fantasy before. Some of them may have aphantasia, or an inability to conjure mental imagery, sexual or otherwise.

Psychology TodayJustin J. Lehmiller Ph.D.

What We Can Learn About Ourselves From BDSM

Internal conflict and self-judgment are often at the heart of strong judgments of others. The BDSM community can teach us something about self-acceptance and self-exploration.

Psychology TodaySarah Gingell Ph.D.

In essence, this is what psychiatry and psychology are all about. All that police paraphernalia, jailhouse smut and courthouse trash. Homosexual cops cruising all over the place with red and blue flashing lights lusting for innocent males and females to put in jail or prison. Hell on earth, people getting abused, beaten up, fistfights and worse, being jumped by some dude with a garrote in a back alley behind a local bar, this is concrete boots stuff, grisly murder scenes, dead bodies dumped by drug cartels, blood and gore once the cops and shrinks start strangling the pretty girls.